Kelly Jo, you are always welcome here! As you can see, we have fun, but when we need to be, we are serious, too!
Ali, and T, As far whether W feels excluded, interesting question. When it came to the baseball game we didn't go to Sunday, she had excluded herself. When we were planning, we were choosing between Saturday and Sunday. She didn't work Saturday, and did Sunday. She told us to go on Sunday. Even her parents were going to go with us! As far as the concert, I don't think she really wants to go. We told her she could come, she went in, and I'm guessing, looked at her schedule, and then said she didn't want to change it. (Which could lead to lots of other thoughts, but I am not going there right now!)
On the other hand, I think we'll try to figure out something for the 4th of July, and make sure she is included, unless she specifically chooses not to be.
As far as the humor goes, W has told me pretty directly that she doesn't like it. So, I don't do it. I have to think that she liked it at one point. So, sometimes I think it means she doens't like ME, rather than the humor. Maybe?
Is she depressed? I don't know. Does she have some issues a C might be able to help with? I think for sure! But, in this case, you can't even lead the horse to water, let alone make her drink!
And yes, those body stockings would be way too hot for Arizona in the summer!