Originally Posted By: Jeff223
Sure the kids wanted us to talk. They spent all day seeing family after family - moms and dads together. DUHHH. Ex has not a clue what this has done to our kids.

Not a clue.

I told her "no, I did not ask to speak with you" - end of phone call.

I don't want her in my life except as a co-parent. I refuse her as a *friend" in any sense of that word.

It is difficult to show her respect when I am with the kids when in fact I have little respect for her.


Jeff,

I agree.... I think you should have as little contact with her as possible...... IMHO, contact OUTSIDE the realm of co-parenting is unecessary....

Quote:
"The past is never there when you try to go back. It exists, but only in memory. To pretend otherwise is to invite a mess." - Chris Cobbs


Take Care,

NMD


"Chains do not hold a marriage together. It is threads, hundreds of tiny threads which sew people together through the years. That is what makes a marriage last --more than passion or even sex!" - Simone Signoret