Update:

We had a huge fight last night. All in all it was a good thing as we aired and resolved a number of issues related to our situation. Went through how we have been addressing each other as well how she percieved me sliding back towards depression. Understandably, that has dramaticaly colored her views toward me.

I slept on the couch last night as she has been complaining that my snoring has kept her awake, thus a great deal of her attitude. I have been snoring due to a shoulder injury that will not let me sleep in my usual position. When I actually prepped the couch, she seemed a little upset. My plan is to go the bed in the basement starting tonight. I can only handle the couch for a while due to my back. I don't see why I should stay in the marriage bed just to co-sleep, espeically if I contribute to her lack of sleep.

No disucssion of sex and I am not going to ask or initiate any. We have kind of a gift vacation coming up next week, so maybe that will help my spirits, I could use a lift.

NTE