Watching the kids while W goes to OM

[lynn97]

Yes it's tough. Since I am out of the house right now it's a little easier to deal with. I don't have to see her constantly going out side to text him or whatever. If I lived there I would see those things. But I could start working on myself and she would see it...although I know she would see much of any of it in her cloud.

So my biggest decision now is to let her have the house but state my ground rules for no contact, finances, etc. Or move back in and reclaim my home. Any advice?

Lynn