If you don't want H to come with you, don't take him to the wedding. Take another friend and ask them to run interference for you. Agree on the excuse/reason and if people don't take the hint to drop it, tell them you don't want to talk about it. Use it as a chance to get away from the drama.
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2