______________________________________________________ when I REALLY look at the impact of DB'ing on my m, though, I'm amazed at the wonderful progress that we've made -- h is talking, sharing, participating -- I'm listening more, calmed down, etc. I actually think that we've managed to add to our foundation in a way that we never have before. I guess I just get impatient. and scared. ______________________________________________________
I'm probably feeling impatient and scared right now myself or wouldn't have said that about the cracks in the foundation.
LOL...I'm so impatient right now, I think I'm getting impatient with YOUR husband!!
I wish so much that he knew that what you're feeling is so very normal and what you're asking for is normal and reasonable. If he won't go to C and doesn't want to read books, it would be great if he could hear from another man (or couple) that has been through this process!
