Oh dear, Sage, I think I kind of "spoke" out of my a$$ this morning with my post, as I forgot about YOU packing the suitcase! AHHH!!! Bad me...I apologize... You know, I'm at work, doing stuff in between, so sometimes I miss certain things.

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no calls, no emails for a couple of days now...bummer.
In any case, I wouldn't worry too much about not getting an overt response from your H, as it does take a few days for our Ses to process certain things said. I noticed a pattern of my W acting distant for a couple days after having a deep R talk, but then she'd come back even stronger.

I suppose it comes down to you holding off for a bit while your H processes everything that's transpired. Soon enough, I expect you'll be able to hear and talk more about what to do to heal things even further. Patience sucks, doesn't it?!?!

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I'm so happy for both of you re. the positive movement in your sitchs. In both cases, it seems to me to be a byproduct of patience and looking at the positives and great DB'ing!
Thanks...but our Ses must get some credit too! I am fortunate in that my W is really willing to examine herself, her motives, and read and do what needs to be done to move forward.

Take care, Sage.

jethro