He left then Cheat 2

[karen43]

In a strange way I am kinda of looking at this as a positive.

Great attitude! I try to do this too (it's hard sometimes), but I think there are always positives, and it's good to focus on them instead of the negatives.

I just got back from my T and she said that it seems that I am detaching from him. Instead of being angry or hurt, now I just feel sorry for him. She said that I am getting closer to the acceptance stage of this.

That sounds really good, too--but please don't feel too sorry for him!!! I don't think any of these affairs are really "love", more like chemicals I think...Karen