Corey did my husband send you a nasty email today?
Not that I know of, why? Are you ok?
I'm ok but he was all upset came here while I was at golf and apparantly an email came in from one of my DB friends (I thought at one point he said that eby one) He claims the email said your husband is just like you said he ia s lying POS. And such. And that he now knows my true feelings for him and that I go on this site just to bash him and call him names. But he also said he wrote a nasty email back to this person and that they will never want to speak to me again. Now I know that none of my DB friends would take to heart what a wayward spouse had to say and use it against each other but I was just wondering if you were the recipient. He went on a second time and deleted all my friends on facebook, I closed my account I/we don't need the drama, he closed his account yesterday now I don't have to worry about ow being on there anymore.
Me~34 H~38 D6.5
EA/PA-DEC.07
Moved out~Apr.13,08 Sep. Papers~Dec.7,08 No contact order ~Dec.9,08 and again October 13, 2009
Oh sweetie I'm so sorry. I didn't get anything from him and I'm pretty sure I never said anything like that in any of our emails, but if it was my email he took to heart, then I'm SO sorry.
Too much drama. I posted to you. If there is anything I can do...besides make trouble. Let me know.
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
I will send you an email from work, no one snoops me there. I know you never wrote like that in fact I couldn't think of anyone that writes to me that says stuff like that.
I actually said are you sure it didn't say fu*ktard? Cause that is an inside joke.
Me~34 H~38 D6.5
EA/PA-DEC.07
Moved out~Apr.13,08 Sep. Papers~Dec.7,08 No contact order ~Dec.9,08 and again October 13, 2009
(((GF))) not yet, but they are drawn up and ready to go. You arent' going to believe this. I guess MIL has been talking to H about this sitch and he has said that he will do WHATEVER he has to do to protect me and the kids. He will have his name taken off of the house and if we need to be LS then we will do it so she won't be able to get anything from us (me & kids). So strange. But he went to the cardroom last night and is there right now, but its not my problem! It feels good
Originally Posted By: girlfromipanema
Snow White's husband hacked into her facebook account and sent a weird message to her fb friends.
How you doing today, sugar? Are you melting down there or what????
I'm sorry you and your h had that conversation yesterday.
(((((((((Corey)))))))))
GFI...it is 2 degrees cooler than hell here today and it looks like summer is finally upon us. Poor SW, thats gotta suck big time...drama.
Today is a better day because H and I were having these conversations yesterday after he had been at work all night and slept in his truck...not a very good thing. I'm tired too from my class, I do it online and I wait until the DD is asleep so I'm up until 12 or 1am every night and get up at 5:30, so maybe some of it was just being tired and irritable. I'm not going to take anything to heart right now. I have as much chance of getting through to him as I do having a meaningful conversation with my OM (Spike my cat for those of you not reading GFI's thread!), kinda like clapping with 1 hand. Besides after work we had one last conversation and I just told him that D is probably for the best and he backed off bigtme. He may not know what he wants from his life, but I guess he does know that much...he doesn't want a D. Whatever, we'll just have to see.
How are you??
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
Sorry you have been having so much drama. You are sounding more detached overall though, and that is definitely a good thing.
Hang in there.
I'll catch up and post more later.
(((Michelle)))so glad to have you back. I definately SOUND WAY more detached than I am...Stage 5 clinger in the last 2 days and that needs to stop. I have just really been a whiny, clingy, anti-db principles mess. I also see the affect it is having on my R with H. I don't feel good about it either.
I just need to quit worrying about things I can't control and move on with my life and my business. Things really haven't changed all that much and I don't see that they are going to. I just seem to lose sight of the big picture and need to step back and refocus. Sort of rambling, but it makes sense to me...LOL.
SW did you really ask H if the email said F*cktard? That made me giggle. Hope things are better.
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
Sugar, YOU make me giggle, "Stage 5 clinger" - where do you come up with this stuff? xo
Stage 5 Clinger...Wedding Crashers, I wish I could take credit for it though.
I am doing a little better, sometimes I'm just too negative for my own good. When I take a step (or 10) back and just act like a friend, things go so much better. I just don't want him to only see me as a "friend" and not a woman or his wife, yah know?
He scares me now with his comments about how he likes not having to answer to anyone and "if" he ends up with her. Its just all very confusing and it makes me think that what he told me a couple of weeks ago was just something born out of raw emotion and not truth.
Anyway, it is what it is and for now its just a waiting game. Whats up with you?
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
That's what I was thinking! I guess that's why they tell you not to believe anything they say and only 50% of what you see? He is so confused, I wouldn't believe anything he said I think that is true. Karen
