Your split seems fairly fresh and this is just my .02, so gleen from it only what you deem necessary. H is probably feeling some guilt over ditching his family and thinks that being a friend will help smooth over any bad feelings you might be harboring. If you are still in love with him then you are probably still desperate in a way to hold on to anything that might remain of you as a couple.
Yes, that's what I was afraid of.
Apologies for the hijack C2H.
Me:36 M:16 D final: 08/09 Ds:10&5 Ss:8&3 Bomb 3xPA 200 sexual encounters 15/06/08