I WANTED TO EDIT RAN OUT OF THOUGHTS...JUST DELETED..GLAD BFM THAT IS NORMAL.... I WILL WATCH IT....
HE WAS CRANKED UP COS WE ARE GOING AWAY TO A NASCAR RACE AND TRYING TO ARRANGE ANIMAL CARE.....SPEWED OUT HE JUSTS WANT TO BE ABLE TO GO AWAY W/OUT ALL THE COMPLICATIONS....I TOLD HIM TO GO BACK TO WHERE HE WAS BEFORE WITH NO WORRIES OR ANIMALS TO CARE FOR....SILENCE...THEN ..." it didt work"....
Me 53 H 51 OW 25 Bomb may 06 left june 8/ 06 ILYBNILWY (twice!) 7/6/07 H wants to come home 7/21/07 H comes home 7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW now piecing in earnest
FW told me not too long ago that sometimes he still feels like running. Not running TO anyone, just away. Sometimes he thinks about being away and getting to do stuff without any responsibilities and it was fun, but he realizes that we have fun too, but he also realizes that while a lot of it was fun, most of it was miserable. It's just hard sometimes to remember the miserable part when he's in the funk.
It's when he gets in his "funk" (that's what he calls it) that he feels this way.
It doesn't really sound like your H is spewing at YOU as much as he is just spewing and getting things off his chest. Hard not to take it personally. I do and I want to try to "fix" things when it happens. FW has gotten better at making sure I know that it's not directed at ME just at the situation in general and he realizes I'm not really to blame. Hopefully your H will get to this point soon.
BFM
There is only one person who could ever make you happy, and that person is you. David Burns, Intimate Connections
once again end of the month has been extended...ow says she "thinks" found a place for her and her new BF, but it might not be ready to move into til a few days into august after the end of july......shes waiting for the landlord to call her back,.....just cant get her fat a$$ out of our lives and H wont push....
Me 53 H 51 OW 25 Bomb may 06 left june 8/ 06 ILYBNILWY (twice!) 7/6/07 H wants to come home 7/21/07 H comes home 7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW now piecing in earnest
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
H and I are going to Loudon, NH to spend the weekend at the NASCAR Races! We've borrowed my SIL's motor home to stay in. Going with warren and his wife. It should be fun....dont worry no sex...it has twin bed sleeping area.
I had said a while ago we should start over and date....so in bed last nite he popped up and reminded me I had said that and said this would be our 1st date.....
Me 53 H 51 OW 25 Bomb may 06 left june 8/ 06 ILYBNILWY (twice!) 7/6/07 H wants to come home 7/21/07 H comes home 7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW now piecing in earnest
He reminded you???? Wow--sounds like he was frightened that it might actually happen.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
