You seem to be getting some really good advice here. I'm sorry your H doesn't seem to be willing to help you finish the feelings you still have over the a. I do agree with what Caz said, about breaking the ice. A lot of times when H and I have emotional scenes like that it is a release and we actually then move forwards another step!
Really though if you go back over your posts, and wish there were some way for him to see that, things ARE better. You two are making progress. It is just a SLOW process.
Didn't get in that shape overnight and not going to heal overnight. Although I WISH it would!
Here is hoping your evening goes well! FUN maybe
Pam
"We must be willing to let go of the life we had planned so as to have the life that is waiting for us"