wonder if a while ago you recall my making reference to the power of krispy kreme doghnuts?
h and I had a tiff of some sort...no doubt r related...things were pleasant at best but some of the "connection" we had been building was lost...I turned one of h's "obligatory" calls into a silly conversation about my craving for a krispy kreme (when the heck are they comming to this neck of the woods wait til you try one...oh ya I'm not really supposed to be talking about doghnuts now am I, better get back to the point)
if you don't know how to or just don't feel totaly compelled to apologize at least for your reaction the other night it is possible to break the ice with something un related...perhaps some play time with the kittys and h? a friendly e-mail about them?? something? anything? spur of the moment?
maybe once some of the tension lifts...you may then feel more comfortable appologizing for your actions or insecurities (imagine that apologizing for feeling insecure as a result of a neg that someone else added? whew) and h may surprise you with understanding. after all that is what we are all after isn't it? understanding...the lbs wants to have their pain understood and the waw s want to have their pain understood as well.
