Watching the kids while W goes to OM

[lynn97]

I'm not sure how I'm going to get to "see" a text message. She keeps her phone with her at all times. She even takes it to the bathroom. It's like her lifeline.

So I know I just start detaching, LRT, and GAL. Is there anything else I should do? We had what seemed like a nice conversation on IM yesterday. Was that really nice or was she just trying to butter me up so I would accept her demands? I'm going to see her toninght when I go see the kids. Should I be upbeat and "no worries" or a little aloof? Should I listen if she wants to talk or do a 180 and say I have to get back? Is it time to do a after LRT and ask for a divorce?

Lynn