Don't confront her until you KNOW. If she isn't talking to OM then it'll just seem controlling.

Is the third party a friend of W or OM? If so, I wouldn't believe it for a second. OM could have planted that knowing it would get back to you and you'd quit paying attention.

I know Puppy has said this to you before, but CHEATERS LIE. Always remember that.


Hope4us

Me - 49, W 49
S22 & S18
Dday 9/4/07
W claims NC 4/7/08
8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.