Thanks BMe for your words. You are right - it is all about him. He says he is, as most addicts say, 'special and different'. Why he didn't tell me he was struggling back when it started is the most cowardly thing he has done.
Me:36 M:16 D final: 08/09 Ds:10&5 Ss:8&3 Bomb 3xPA 200 sexual encounters 15/06/08