smartcookie, our conversations are a little of everything. We talk about day to day stuff (you know, how work is going, what we've been doing in our own separate lives) as well as R. Yes, we still bring up the reasons we got to this point but I wouldn't say that we dwell on them - it's more or less to make a point about something that doesn't seem to be sinking in to one or the other. For the most part, it does seem like we're making progress. I'm just crossing my fingers that we are able to stay this open and honest with each other long enough to figure things out once and for all.


Me (WAW) 30
H (LBS) 31
T since 6/10/1994
M 8/8/98
No kids
S 3/10/08
D filed 6/9/08; put on hold 7/14/08
D finalized 10/13/08