Matilda, Jak, Lanzo, and Piecing Friends, I have no major breakthroughs to report.
I'm feeling pressure to make a move. I wrote a poem this morning about dating, and the obsession a man goes thru, trying to time when he will put his arm around his date. The woman is wondering, and getting increasingly frustrated, waiting for the man to make his move. The window of opportunity is open, but won't stay open indefinitely.
My W and I went dancing twice this weekend. The first night we went to a ballroom venue, so now my W wants to take hustle lessons, and I would like to learn foxtrot. The second night we went to a swing venue.
People come up to us and say hello, and say that they've watched us over the years. I didn't think anyone noticed. We are becoming increasingly connected to the local dance community.
I've been choosing to sleep with my W every night.
On Saturday night, after the community dance, my W and I went to our neighborhood venue, and danced a very close dance. My W initiated and led it.
My supervisor is also leaving the agency, and I'm considering her position, so change is in the air, both professionally and personally.
My W is conflicted about taking a Hawaii vacation. I'm apparently not showing enough enthusiasm. I've expressed a willingness to go, but am admittedly not looking forward to a nine hour flight.
CL
Last edited by Concerned_Listener; 06/24/0811:33 AM.
CL 53 W 54 M 20 yrs. 03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL 10-14' Piecing
"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."
