Regarding the blaming.... Even in piecing, I see H blaming me in many ways. He left his keys somewhere and couldn't find it. My fault that I put something on top of it. I cooked great food and it's because the ingredients are fresh. I cooked it bad and it's because I added too much salt, etc.
We are still in piecing. OW still around trying to get back in the picture (or did she ever get out of it?????)
