I don't get it either, but I'm beginning to care less and less about what he's thinking. It's apparent that our morals and ethics, something I always thought were in line, aren't as similar as I thought. I deserve more than I was getting. I wanted us to figure out how to work it out, but since that's not going to happen, I'm going to make myself happy and strong.


Me: 42/H: 37
T: 10 years/M: 8
D9, S8
Bomb: 7.23.07
Separated: 1.20.08
D Final 3.19.09
Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09

My life is good.