another date set today!

[jandn]

Just got off phone with W and want to call her some names. Texted her a lil after 10 to see if kids were in bed. Said yes, so I said well its late for me too and what about steamer and when you want to go through all the junk? W texts, u wanna call real quick? Stupid me I did

Im thinking, cool W will be in good mood. Didnt take long for W to start talking about settling things and when I would make my offers, I can hear uggh and that damn pissy tone comes out. WTF? W says I really thought after yesterday we where going to be able to get along (heard this about 3 times, and did answer with yes we are and at end said maybe Im just taking you wrong). You were just being nice cause you thought you could get lower child support this and that. Found out what it all would cost me, and is crazy! W mad about not being able to have any money until Nov to buy washer and dryer this and that. It was like she wanted w and d but Saturday said if I buy her out of house could keep everything in it.

Then W thinks there is just one loan on the house. Asked if I had refied it, I said um, your name is on title too, I cant do that. What a shame, knew I should have had S with her. Up and down on her moods on the phone. I said see, this is why I like talking in person cause things tend to go better. I tried many of times to get off phone, but she thought I was getting mad and thats why, but I couldnt. Finally towards the end, W asks when I would like to get together and talk about things. She mentioned she might have a coupon and we could go out to eat like Sat. And says hope you have good day at work this and that.

Bout tired of this BS. I got frustrated, didnt show it but would calmly tell W, well ok this is what we will do then, gets fired up. Sometimes when talking to W, gives me validation why I ought to just walk away.

W also said I thought we had a good day yesterday. I said yes we did, we didnt talk about what we are now, just basically hung out and got the things you wanted moved to your place. Thought I did pretty good on that one. What an expensive mind game among other things!