Julia referred me to your post, and i am glad she did. it seems that our W are very similar. I have gotten myself back into best friends status after about 7 weeks of no communication. i have also been helping her a lot like you describe. i feel myself stuck with my own emotions and was wondering how you deal with the best friends part. i am trying to be patient but i am realizing that i could never be just friends. every great day we spend together makes me want more.
this week she is back staying at my house while we separate our stuff and move into different apartments in different cities 3.5 hours apart. we don't have kids but we do have 3 pets that we intend to share. somedays she is willing to work others she blames me for ruining 10 years of her life.
I was just wondering if you had any advice on being her best friend and getting through this week every time i look at her i just want to hold her till its right. thanks for your time, i really do admire your strength, it sounds like we have very similar take on things.
