Sage, I totally understand about the e-mails and the minutia. How I miss that, the tinyness of life, Life is in the details, isn't it? There is only one person to share that with, and that is H. No one else cares... I find my heart broken that my H has chosen to share his day to day with OW. That bothers me more than the other.
Take solace in the fact that you have come this far with your H. Know that the road is rough and the journey long, but you, at least, HAVE STARTED THE JOURNEY. Not to have a pity party, but I continue to wonder if my H and I will ever BEGIN on the journey toward reconciliation. Have hope. It took the two of you a step at a time to get where you were, and you have to take it a step at a time to get back. So, just do it, a step at a time, quit getting impatient, wanting to skip steps, it won't payoff in the end. Slow is solid, fast is fragile.
Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.
