I was lurking on your thread and didn't have much to add until now...
Your latest post set off some red flags...
He sounds a little on the needy and clingy side. He seems more concerned about his need for a commitment than your need for space. The more you say you need space - the harder he seems to push for more...
You weren't ready to call him your BF when you first started posting. Perhaps your inner voice is trying to tell you something. Trust your instincts.
Also I read TC's post and it was a contrast - her BF seems to have accepted her need for her own space for her kids right now.
Just an observation.
Hang in there with your job hunt! Just keep plodding along with the resumes and interviews. All you need is one good offer - keep the faith that it will happen.
