You last contacted B last week, right? I'd leave it another week or so before thinking about initiating contact again. That gives him a little time to respond in case he's away and busy, and it gives him a bit of space to percolate all his great thoughts about seeing you and thinking how hot you are, and singing dirty songs with you on the streets on NYC!
LOL!!!!!!!! Lisa, thank you so much for your thoughts on the timing of the next contact I can definitely wait longer, since I Excel At Waiting. So we'll give it another week and then maybe think about another contact.
I was thinking about his performance and the part at the end where he did some mongolian-style throatsinging.... you actually make this low rhumbly sound and then use the shape of your mouth to isolate overtones, so you can sing two lines at the same time. Totally wild, right? Well I used to do that a little, inspired by this documentary about this blind american bluesman who went to Tuva and won the audience's favorite award in the annual throatsinging competition! It is one of the most inspiring things I've ever seen. So maybe I could send him a link to that or something. I also realized that in the beginning of the flight of the conchord's "mother uckers" video, the rascist fruit seller brandishes a vegetable peeler JUST LIKE the one I got from Peeler Man (the fruit seller threatens to "peel their beards off") so that would be something funny for me to share with him too.
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I'll think of suave ways to let him know you want to meet in August. Not that I'm an expert, of course. I think you'll see him though- I just think he maybe needs a bit of time to process seeing you and all your changes. And to control the longing feeling in his pants!
Yay, thank you Lisa! I could always do the same old, "I'll be in town, it would be great to catch up if you're around" schpiel. There is the tiniest possibility that b/c of his enthusiastic asking of "when?" I would be in town that he might actually want to know so he could plan around that too. ???? You make me laugh about that longing feeling, the longing feeling in MY PANTS is growing stronger by the hour.... crazed beaver alert!!!
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PS> I totally understand those subway feelings- it's a lonely place. (((((T))))) Hope your day's going well today.
(((my lady))) it was funny, on the drive back with my Dad I *still* had to spin the radio dial whenever we hit a sappy love song which was basically every 3.7 minutes My day is going much better today, here in the busom of my family!!!
I can definitely wait longer, since I Excel At Waiting. So we'll give it another week and then maybe think about another contact. 
