3. He doesn't think this relationship with the OW will last. He's not going to marry her. He's trying to hedge his bets.
Ok.. about this statment. I swear sometimes he IS going to marry her. Actually, he will do it as soon as ow talks him into it. He thinks they have the opportunity to have a great relationship once we D. On the other hand, he sometimes acts like he's just waiting/wanting for it to die its own death...like it's sooo much easier to just end it with me and then, wait for that to end... I probably don't make sense.. I'm irritated..
WARNING!!! Venting in process:
WTH is up with these people? Do they EVER take ANY responsibility for ANYTHING?? Like SueS said on her thread - she is always getting blamed. Well, so am I. Now, stbx blames me for D's attitude toward him when she doesn't want to talk to him. She's mad at him for ignoring her.. How can THAT be MY fault??? He acts like I MUST be saying something to her. And, I am soooo careful not to put him (or even ow!!!) down. Just so irritating...
