W never finalized it. She filed, I waived service, we divided the stuff, but she never went back to court. Unfortunately for WAS'S there's a lot involved in getting a D. The do-it-yourself papers out on the 'net are a bunch of crap.
I took W's "divorce" papers to a lawyer friend and she just laughed. Same thing with Michelle's H. And, I would guess, same thing with your W's papers if she ever fills them out. People who really want a divorce get a lawyer and get it over with (interesting because none of our spouses here in Separating seem to be doing that).
Well guess what, the self-kit is gone, obviously the W is filling them out and getting ready to serve me.. WOWSERS.. Would you suggest i take them to a lawyer (here's a story for you, my friend got divorced 12 years ago, her ex is rich.. he went and got his law degree and has been pulling her into court for 12 years , she is expert by now)...
Suggestions everyone? I am not as upset as I thought i'd be..
Plus W sent me a text( i never had my phone on until now, saying "you can goto the gym if u want , the dogs are fed")
