root, we don't discuss much past the kids, money, and the divorce. Every once in awhile he talks with me about his job or sometimes going out with friends.

There were NEVER signs that he would choose this path, bend his morality. In fact, like others, he was disgusted by infidelity and actually dropped a friend because he cheated on his wife. But yes, hooking up with married women baffles me too.

He baffles me.