Quoting sage:
Forgot a couple ...

26. Interpreting his "moods" and "silences" instead of just letting him be.

27. Not standing up for myself with him -- in a respectful way (to either of us)

28. being indirect about what I wanted (I might have already said this)

Sage


and a few more:

29. not taking seriously (enough to act) his desire to have a clean, uncluttered house

30. not respecting his time (out running errands, tack on 2-3 more stops that he didn't expect)

31. not taking his words at face value (more interpreting)

32. not seeing how much a calm environment meant to him (always hepped up about something)

Sage

Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.