W never finalized it. She filed, I waived service, we divided the stuff, but she never went back to court. Unfortunately for WAS'S there's a lot involved in getting a D. The do-it-yourself papers out on the 'net are a bunch of crap.
I took W's "divorce" papers to a lawyer friend and she just laughed. Same thing with Michelle's H. And, I would guess, same thing with your W's papers if she ever fills them out. People who really want a divorce get a lawyer and get it over with (interesting because none of our spouses here in Separating seem to be doing that).
Me: 30 W: 28 T 8, M 6 S: 7-27-2007 W filed (again) 3-2011 Served 8-2011 Responded, now dark "I have decided to stick with love. Hate is too great a burden to bear" MLK