The thing is that I now have accepted her moving out. I asked her if she really realizes the amount of bills we have and the amount she is going to be paying for an apartment. Written everything down? She said no, because she didn't want to be disappointed. I feel like I laid out my boundary. If she is going to stay at home for now, it has to be with out OM. Otherwise, I WANT her gone. I told her this. I will have to figure out how to maintain my boundary. She has said that she is going to end it.
We talked a lot this weekend. Like she really intends to end it with him. I think seperating would be good for us. To let her realize what she would lose. I just need HIM gone. I have to keep working on this and also let her do it with out me hounding.
Hope she can do it.
Me 47, WW 38 SS18, D15, D10
Good Bye Girl. No longer SAYING she's moving out. GBG moved out 8-1-08
"I have now decided to enjoy life instead of figure it out."
