I wrote ex an email asking if D17 could stay with him Wed and Thursday (why wait for him to ask?). I received an email back saying he was going to visit some of our old friends in another state and he wouldn't be back until Friday. I wrote back and simply said, "Have fun. Give them a hug from me. I bet they will enjoy meeting your gf".
I really don't know if he is taking her.....so it will be interesting if he writes back. Maybe I'll hear from my friend there later.....but I know our friends don't want to take sides. I hope if gf goes that they won't like her (just feeling a little childish today!)