Forgot a couple ...

26. Interpreting his "moods" and "silences" instead of just letting him be.

27. Not standing up for myself with him -- in a respectful way (to either of us)

28. being indirect about what I wanted (I might have already said this)

Sage

Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.