FA, the ultimatum was given a few months ago. H was doing great. I guess my ultimatum forgot to mention what to do anbout another OW...just thought that was understood.

I want to talk to him but I know that is probably not a good idea. I want to talk to him about this wedding. I just can't decide if it would be better or worse for him to be with me.

They both claim that they weren't doing anything (although my H did look flushed and out of breath) and she was hiding because he didn't want me to get the wrong idea and freak out. I don't care if they weren't doing anything. After everything we have been through lately and especially the talk we had yesterday he should know that that is wrong.

Thanks Michelle, I'm glad my mom is here too. Last time I had to deal with this with no one. NO friends, nobody. I also think this wedding is compounding my feelings for everything.


Kris