Hey LL -- I know the email/joke you're talking about. Think it applies???? NO DOUBT.

We ended up fine. I'm fine. He's fine. I just put myself back into a spot that I've put myself in before -- mindreading, putting pressure on h, etc. not good stuff. Lame.

I like your idea about relaxing and enjoying myself. I'll try it!

Sage

Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.