Here goes..

[redsawks44]

woke up this morning and want to chat about getting back together soooo badly....she is off today... i will not call her...

[redsawks44]

Thankfully, i was just tired when i posted that!

[redsawks44]

kind of funny W said you think you look hot in those glasses... i replied " you think i look hot?" (we just chuckled)..

[jon2911]

Sawks, you need to get your mind off the sitch. Time to do some homework bro. First, read Michelle's articles. I recommend:

http://divorcebusting.com/a_walkaway_wife.htm
- this describes your W perfectly. She gave you plenty of chances, now she's done.

http://divorcebusting.com/a_why_change.htm
http://divorcebusting.com/a_while_spouse_decides.htm

Next, scope out some of the success stories on here. I read this one whenever I get down:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=692727&page=0&fpart=1


This is a LONG process, you're analyzing everything way too much. There's no way you can know what your W is thinking

You seem to be doing better, glad that the Realtor went well. Your sitch still has a lot of hope, but you need to back off and detach for a while.

[redsawks44]

Sawks, you need to get your mind off the sitch. Time to do some homework bro. First, read Michelle's articles. I recommend:

http://divorcebusting.com/a_walkaway_wife.htm
- this describes your W perfectly. She gave you plenty of chances, now she's done.

http://divorcebusting.com/a_why_change.htm
http://divorcebusting.com/a_while_spouse_decides.htm

Next, scope out some of the success stories on here. I read this one whenever I get down:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=692727&page=0&fpart=1


This is a LONG process, you're analyzing everything way too much. There's no way you can know what your W is thinking

You seem to be doing better, glad that the Realtor went well. Your sitch still has a lot of hope, but you need to back off and detach for a while.

Hi Jon,

i will look for DR today when i goto the doc.. so far i've lost 17 pounds.. everyone says i look good, but most importantly, i feel good! .. i am eating healthier than ever..

I am going to talk to my boss about a raise, with them moving me up in the corporation, i think it's only fair.

Today i am going to ask to go back on Champix, to quit smoking for good..

Today , i have made no contact other than telling W that i will be in Washington state for week of Jul 21.. as a FYI because of our dogs.. that's it.. said something like " FYI i will be in WA week of Jul 21-25"

WAW describes EXACTLY my Wife..

I know it's a long process.. and i have to practice patience..

If i get my raise i may keep the house we built...

just going to keep going to the gym-working-getting quality sleep..repeat..

some people here (the HR lady says she cannot believe how well i am taking everything)..

alot of people are saying that.. crazy! lol

[jon2911]

Sawks,
That is amazing! 17 Pounds! You're inspiring me to get to the gym more. I go a few times a week but don't stay long enough.

You know your W is noticing this. Thus the "hot" comment.

[redsawks44]

Sawks,
That is amazing! 17 Pounds! You're inspiring me to get to the gym more. I go a few times a week but don't stay long enough.

You know your W is noticing this. Thus the "hot" comment.

Just ordered DR, no copies available in the whole city... craziness.. i get it in 1-2 weeks..

another new habit i just began... i enjoyed as a child.. and swayed from .. is reading.. bought the hobbit today..

and saw my doc today he said, wow you look amazing... that was nice to hear.. been hearing it from alot of folks..

so when W said "you think you look hot".. i know she meant i think you look hot...

[redsawks44]

Sawks,
That is amazing! 17 Pounds! You're inspiring me to get to the gym more. I go a few times a week but don't stay long enough.

You know your W is noticing this. Thus the "hot" comment.

i did 12 miles yesterday (more than half with my dogs walking outside) ..i did 2 walks and a run

[jon2911]

another new habit i just began... i enjoyed as a child.. and swayed from .. is reading.. bought the hobbit today..

Excellent! I need to read that one again, and the Lord of the Rings trilogy also.

[redsawks44]

yep

reading
gym
more gym
positive thinking

a complete 180

my W always bugged me to get glasses....

Fact is i never got them until now... now i look forward to going to the gym, in fact i am overly anxious.. it's a good thing... better than going and having 12 beer or going out and being dumb..

i know it's a long road ahead.. and takes time. Going to the gym helps keep my mind busy , although guess what i think about the whole time i am running.. yep the big D ..doh!

i went thru the whole day without contacting W.. when i get home i will grab my shorts and a shirt and head to the gym.. after that go home grab a bite, and watch a movie maybe.. or maybe goto a movie by myself..

she will ask " where were you" i am sure of it.. i guess i tell her eh?