In a strange way I am kinda of looking at this as a positive. First, the fact that he does not see OW as a relationship is good. I have been tracking some things on him the last couple of weeks and it really does look like he has not seen her during this time. Second, that he is wanting to work on himself is also good. I figure that with his T help he will come to a happier place and see that I was not the evil nagging wife that he felt I was in the end. Third, as scary as the LS is, it will get things in a more structured way so H does not see me as controlling everything and therefore might let go of some of the resentment he is carrying right now.
I just got back from my T and she said that it seems that I am detaching from him. Instead of being angry or hurt, now I just feel sorry for him. She said that I am getting closer to the acceptance stage of this. I think hearing that the OW really was not a "love" relationship helped me tremendously. All this time I have been picturing them together having a wonderful time, when in fact he is just using her every now and then. Very sad on both of their parts.
Broken Hearted ------------------ Me - 36 H - 37 S - 8 Married - 1992 ILYNILWY - August 2007 Moved Out - March 2008 OW Revieled - May 28, 2008 Filed for D - July 2, 2008
