I was also thinking W probably wants this marriage, but then looks at how much money has been invested in getting out of it and probably doesnt want to feeling embarrassed or whatever you will about her family. Im trying to see W doesnt want to look a certain way for coming back to me after I have been made out to whatever I have been made out too. Just my opinion.

On that same token, the last time I went to C, which in the phone convo Sat W asked if I had been to her and said yes once in the past month, C suggested I talk to a family member of hers and see what is it that it would take to win my W back. Well I have a small boat at her Dads, and he is pretty cool. I was thinking I need to go out there and get it and face him. I would ask "what miracle would it take to win your daughter back". Would agree if things were brought up about what I have done and ask for forgiveness, but would probably point out that he knows it takes 2 and I have forgiven his daughter on the things she has done. Something like that.

I feel like W would keep me on the side and not let her family about it. Thats what I was trying to say!

Last edited by jandn; 06/23/08 09:01 PM.

my stories

M-31
W-28
S7 D2.5
T 8, M 4
W filed 2-14-08
D on hold 3/08
D off hold 5/08
D to be final on/by Nov 08
Anniv 9-4 looked hopeful