Bring on the Rain - Part 3

[SueS]

H called me this afternoon at work asking if I had a minute. My stomach started to turn as I thought he was finally going to talk to me about things. Turns out he needs his vehicle fixed. It's been running poorly since the night he went out with his brother back in March & came home so darn drunk. Probably hit something. He asked if I would consider taking him up to the mechanic so he could drop it off. I told him I'd help him out with that. Need that car running! Then he said, oh, by the way, my friend *** wants me to meet him out for dinner tonight. I said, Okay, that sounds fun. His response...Not that you care, but I thought I'd tell you. Here goes my H, trying to make me feel guilty for being ready to move forward, on and out of his life. I said, now why would you say that? He said, okay, I have to go. I'll talk to you later. Now, I know my H. He fully expects/expected me to call him right back or email him asking why he would say such a thing or telling him that I do care and asking him not to say those things. I'm DONE! I'm done with him making me feel guilty over nothing. I'm tired of him making me feel like the bad guy and like the one whose fault it is that we're in this sitch. For goodness sake, I thought by the time I had accepted the situation and him moving on that he'd be jumping for joy that he's free. Instead, he's trying to make me feel like a cold, uncaring b*tch. I feel like I can't win.

SueS