ok guys - I'm dying here. W just called me bawling saying she's having a very tough time. She said the boys were very hard today (1st day of summer) and she's still feeling down - she just can't feel better - she says she's very depressed, she's lost her way and just can't get out of it. I was doing great - validating, keeping my mouth shut etc... Then she asked why I am being so good to her through this - why am I staying with her, I didn't answer and then she asked asked again and then I caved - I told her it was because I love her and always have and always will and I just want to make her happy even if it means letting her go. I didn't know what else to do other than be honest - why can't I keep my MOUTH SHUT!!!!
M 43 W 44 M 17 T 22 S16,12,9 Bomb 2/05/08 I served her 1/06/09 S'd 3/15/09 D'd 12/21/09
"Tough times don't last, tough people do." --My Dad to me years ago, me to my boys now.