one thing that gave me clarity was reading story after story on this site. I began to hear my H's voice in some of the men here. I began to see his side of things, & put myself in his shoes. That was something I'd been refusing to do until I came here. It softened my heart.
M 19 years, MC for 8 months, DB'd for 8 months 4 kids; 18, 15, 14, & 10 I was never meant to be a doormat. It took me years of therapy to become assertive enough to stop his abuse.
