in limbo and an emotional mess...

[SueS]

MAZ-

I'm sorry to hear about your grandmother. I understand about being glad she can rest. I lost mine at 93 years old about 2 years ago. She was mentally gone about 6 months before she passed. Within her last 2 weeks of life she broke both legs and was in tremendous pain. A nursing home worker tried to move her by herself & dropped her. Then during surgery to fix the one leg, they broke the other one. We wondered why she had to suffer so much. We miss her but she'd told my mom that she was at peace & ready to go about 6 months before she passed. She was a fabulous lady & I miss her so much.

I'm glad to hear that you feel you had a good talk with your H. Boy, the OW has some nerve calling you and asking you where YOUR H is. But, after all the other crap she's pulled, I guess I'm not shocked. Boy, wouldn't it have thrown her for a loop if you'd said....he just left my pre-natal appointment. But, telling her is your H's job. That shouldn't be put on your shoulders.

I hope you're feeling well despite everything. Take care of yourself.

SueS