Until you are more concerned with doing the right thing and fighting for your marriage than you are for what either "feels good" or "doesn't upset your wife," you have almost no chance.
So what would you do at this point? Kick her out of the house? Tell her I want to save our marriage while you seem to want to destroy it?
Lynn
Lynn, I'd suggest you read Hope4Us' threads, and learn. Then figure out what you REALLY want to do, and come back and ask us all some specific questions.
I don't think you're there yet. Not picking on you, but I just don't.
