I dont think I have ever seen your name or threads here before. I cant thank you enough for following some of my threads. Sometimes I feel like not too many people here look at them, and I am always seeking advise and coming up empty handed often. So, again Thank You!!!
I agree with our similarities in our situations. I am going to be 30 on June 29th, and my H turned 29 in April. We have no kids, but lots of pets. My H drinks way too much ever since his banqruptcy in January '07.
I really hope we can get our life back on track. Things have been really rough lately. One big problem I have is that everytime I get mad/hurt/upset by him or his actions - he gets mad back at me and acts like we need to end our M. I know it is because he doesnt want to admit that he is in the wrong most of the time, but I always face a lose-lose situation.
I will try and find your threads sometime this summer over my break ( I am a teacher & have lots of spare time then). Thanks Again for the advise that I need to keep my expectations low right now. I know this is right. I know our M will not fix itself over night. I need more patience.