Here goes..

[jon2911]

Sawks, you need to get your mind off the sitch. Time to do some homework bro. First, read Michelle's articles. I recommend:

http://divorcebusting.com/a_walkaway_wife.htm
- this describes your W perfectly. She gave you plenty of chances, now she's done.

http://divorcebusting.com/a_why_change.htm
http://divorcebusting.com/a_while_spouse_decides.htm

Next, scope out some of the success stories on here. I read this one whenever I get down:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=692727&page=0&fpart=1


This is a LONG process, you're analyzing everything way too much. There's no way you can know what your W is thinking

You seem to be doing better, glad that the Realtor went well. Your sitch still has a lot of hope, but you need to back off and detach for a while.