She's getting a healthy dose of reality for the first time in her life, and I need to let her go through it. Another side note is that the gas well is drying up. How much further down is rock bottom for my W? As hopeless as I feel right now, I'm glad that she feels she can share this stuff with me.
Very good positives all around.
While it's great to take responsibility for the debt you brought to the M, don't forget her credit card debt is hers, and her medical debt is really hers. I'm not saying don't help her out or support her emotionally, I'm just saying, don't let her blame you for ALL of it either.
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2
