lodo, as a LBS yourself, I am curious as to what you would have wanted (or do want, as I don't know your current situation) your WAS to do? Spend time with you or not? H and I both love to see each other but are both well aware of the somewhat bittersweet pain that follows each visit. Was (is?) it better to have little or no contact?
Me (WAW) 30 H (LBS) 31 T since 6/10/1994 M 8/8/98 No kids S 3/10/08 D filed 6/9/08; put on hold 7/14/08 D finalized 10/13/08
