Long story short, H accidentally hit on a friend of a friend of mine on Saturday night. We had been out with this woman and her H numerous times in the past (as couples). H had no clue, until she (amen!) said "I am friends with your W, Mr. LWB. I can't believe you don't remember that" and he completely freaked out and left the bar. Wow. I thanked my friend for sticking up for me. I am mortified even though I know its all him. I cried hard when I heard about this.
lwb- Sorry about hearing this too. I'm even more sorry to tell you that I somewhat know what this feels like. When H was going through his first A, he spent a weekend downtown Chicago with a buddy of his. A friend of mine (guy) that lived in the same neighborhood ran into them at a bar. My H was over talking & flirting like crazy with a woman. He told my friend not to tell me that he'd seen him. Turns out that my friend also knew the woman my H was flirting with. Thankfully she had little interest and was glad that my friend clued her in that H was married. It just sucked hearing that. Not only was H in an affair, but like this time, is out hitting on other women.
Hugs to you!
SueS
ME: 42, H: 42, D6 Together: 18 yrs. Married: 15 yrs. Attended Retrouvaille - December 2009 Status: Working on it day by day
