Guess I had a spoilt upbringing! My dad willingly went shopping whenever my mum wanted (and still does). He came in every shop including when we were shopping for lingerie. He never moaned and always gave an honest opinion of what we were buying. It might have something to do with the fact that his mum was a single mum and he had 8 sisters (most of them older than him). Even when he was first M to my mum my grandma would tell him he had to pick his youngest sister up from whatever date she was on (and he invariably took the boyfriend home as well!). He wouldn't have dared say no. Funny how the world changes from one generation to the next. Just in case anyone is wondering my grandma wasn't a female tyrant but a very well respected mother.
Me 43 XH 45 M 2.7.88 Divorce 7.10.09 Kids D20,S17 & D15