JWS, I don't have much advice to offer to your sitch, but I'll always 'listen'. I think the key this week is not to pressure her. Vent here if you need to, I can't imagine how difficult it is as I have the opposite and no contact. I don't like my h much either at the moment, it is so hard to see them like that. Unfortunately I not liking doesn't stop me loving him, although it's pushing it to the very limits.
Check out TwinDad's thread on the separated forum. He has just been through a separation and is coming out the other side.
Also Transformer Picnic V on newcomers, she and her boyfriend were separated for months without contact and he recently contacted her... all was not lost.
